I hadn't seen one of my closest friends in weeks.

She’s been deep in a work project, the kind that swallows your calendar whole. So we did what women do when time is short — we got creative.

We met at a store she needed to visit for a client. We strolled the aisles, talked about everything and nothing - the way you only can with someone who knows the whole story. Every few minutes she'd stop mid-sentence — "look at this vase, it's perfect for the bathroom" — and then pick right back up where we left off.

We ended the day with a drink. Her project moved forward. My friendship bucket was full.

Turns out you don't need a whole afternoon. You just need a little creativity and someone worth showing up for.

This feels too good to keep to yourself.

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TODAY’S PICKS

THE FEATURE

The Midlife Friendship Gap.

You're not broken. You're just in the chapter where friendship takes more effort — and matters more than it ever has.

THE REFLECTION

Why a Little Pessimism Might Be Good for You.

Pessimism gets a bad rap. But one philosopher argues it might be the secret to living — and loving — better.

Is there something in your life you’ve become more patient with - once you’ve stop expecting things to be easy?

THE WILDCARD

The Case for Eavesdropping.

It gets a bad rap. But listening in on strangers turns out to be one of the more human things you can do — and good for you too.

My answer:

That Saturday. A home goods store in the middle of a to-do list. Didn't see it coming.

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